Often times, we focus on what’s going on externally from us. We perceive certain events to be for us or against us. We forget to take a look inwardly to see if there is something else going us, causing us to experience what we perceive to be negative. Rather than working externally to change events, it is best to focus inwardly. Focus on yourself. Learn how to change and master your reality by focusing onread more
Self-hatred usually stems from earlier experiences had as a child. If you experience self-hatred, it could mean that you have unresolved feelings or terrible memories from your past. If you allow those thoughts to linger and to continue on, you will form beliefs of self-hatred, and it will affect your everyday living. Where did this idea of self-hatred come from? If you were neglected as a child, you may feel as if you are unworthyread more
Nowadays, there is a lot of opportunity available for people to make money out of a lifestyle they enjoy. You can become a personal shopper, take online surveys or give feedback for dining at restaurants for free, make money off social media such as posting your outfit on Instagram, and more. Anyone in the digital era can partake in it, whether you’re close to retirement age or you’re just a youngster who is fascinated byread more
You are responsible for your own life. That means that whatever happens to you, you have to be there for yourself. This can be a hard concept for some people because they’ve felt like they’ve been bullied or told what to do many times. But, you have to realize that no one can be there 100% except for yourself. When someone makes snide remarks about me, I choose to ignore it and find other peopleread more
There is a difference between unresolved fear, intuition, and instinct. Unresolved fear means that you are opposed to certain kinds of experiences. It causes you to avoid those triggers and to lie in what is most comfortable for you. Intuition is a gut feeling about whether something is right or wrong for you. Gut instinct is your body’s natural reaction to certain events or actions. Unresolved fear can be mistaken for intuition. The difference isread more
“Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” – Albert Einstein If you’re familiar with my blog, you’ll notice that I talk about developing an A player mindset. Geniuses recognize the power of people’s influence on themselves. So what they do is they cautiously choose who to surround themselves with. When you surround yourself with people who are just familiar with the daily grind (going to school, then to university, then landing aread more
“Nothing great was ever achieve without enthusiasm.” – Ralph Waldo Have you ever wondered why some people seem so full of life while others dread their everyday routine? The answer is simple. What separates the enthusiastic from the lost and down are their approaches to life. Nowadays, many people take their lives for granted. In the digital age, there is so much to look forward to. There is plenty of opportunity, and it is atread more
We all have an inner child within us. Most of our habits and actions are based around our experiences with life as a child. This means that we have instilled thoughts in ourselves due to what we perceived or learned from adults and peers at a young age. Sometimes, our inner child wants to express itself differently. It requires courage and tenacity to tune into that inner child and learn how to let go ofread more
There are many different paths that you can tread on in life. Some paths are predictable. Other paths are full of mystery and adventure. Then, there are other paths that lead us to a life of destruction. The best paths are the ones that make you feel aligned and present in the now. We don’t always go down the path that is best suited for us. Our identities and values guide us down certain paths.read more
Do you hold onto unresolved guilt? Guilt is a sign that something went wrong. It is an indicator that you’ve lose control of your thoughts and that you need to examine some underlying issues. In a sense, guilt can be a useless emotion and feeling if you allow it to manifest for a long period of time. When you feel guilty about a past event, you dwell in the zone of “I wish things wereread more
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